Are Lab Grown Diamonds Real Diamonds? The Honest Answer from a Fine Jeweler
Segal & Co Fine Jewelers
Our family has been in the fine jewelry business for over 60 years. In that time, we have seen trends come and go, technologies change, and the diamond industry evolve in ways we never could have imagined. So when it comes to lab grown diamonds, we want to give you the same honest advice we would give a member of our own family.
The Short Answer: Legally, Chemically, and Optically Yes
Lab grown diamonds are legally classified as real diamonds by the Federal Trade Commission (FTC). They share the same chemical composition (pure carbon), the same crystal structure, and the same optical properties as natural diamonds. They sparkle, they are hard, and they are graded by the same gemological laboratories using the same 4Cs: cut, color, clarity, and carat. If someone tells you lab grown diamonds are fake, that is simply not accurate.
How Lab Grown Diamonds Are Made
Lab grown diamonds are created in controlled environments that replicate the conditions under which diamonds form. Instead of developing deep within the earth over billions of years, they are produced over a much shorter period, typically weeks. That difference in origin is one of the main reasons gemological testing can distinguish between lab grown and natural diamonds.
Lab Grown Diamonds Have a Beautiful Place in the Market
We genuinely love what lab grown diamonds have done for accessibility in fine jewelry. There is something truly wonderful about a woman being able to wear a breathtaking, brilliant diamond that turns heads and stands the test of time at a price that fits her life. Lab grown diamonds deliver exactly that: accessible luxury without compromise on beauty or durability.
For the bride who wants a stunning two-carat ring, for the woman treating herself to diamond earrings she has always dreamed of, or for the couple just starting out who refuses to sacrifice on quality, lab grown diamonds make those moments possible. And we celebrate that wholeheartedly.
But Here Is What Nobody Is Telling You
Lab grown and natural diamonds share the same chemical composition and crystal structure, but they are not identical in every respect. Specialized gemological testing can distinguish between them because of differences in how they formed. Whether those differences matter to you depends on your priorities, and there is no wrong choice. What matters is understanding what you are buying.
Origin and rarity are key distinctions. Natural diamonds formed deep within the earth over billions of years under extraordinary heat and pressure. Lab grown diamonds are created in controlled environments over a much shorter period, typically weeks. Both are real diamonds, but their histories and the rarity associated with their origins are different.
Resale value is another key difference. Natural diamonds hold their value considerably better over time. Lab grown diamond prices have dropped dramatically in recent years and continue to decline as production scales globally.
Then there is the matter of portable wealth. Natural diamonds, particularly rare and exceptional stones, remain one of the world's most remarkable stores of value. Think about it: what else can you hold in the palm of your hand, carry in your pocket, and have it be worth hundreds of thousands or even millions of dollars? That is a truly unique quality that only natural diamonds possess. For collectors and investors seeking rare, exceptional stones, that value proposition remains very real.
That said, not every diamond purchase needs to be an investment strategy. The average person buying a beautiful engagement ring or a meaningful gift does not necessarily need to spend tens of thousands of dollars to achieve that goal, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Lab grown diamonds serve that purpose beautifully.
Is a Lab Grown Diamond Worth Buying?
For many buyers, yes. A lab grown diamond can be a smart choice if your priority is getting a larger, beautiful stone for your budget, especially for an engagement ring, wedding band, or gift. The best choice depends on whether you care more about size and affordability or long-term rarity and resale value.
Frequently Asked Questions About Lab-Grown Diamonds
Are lab-grown diamonds real diamonds?
Yes. Lab-grown diamonds are diamonds, not look-alikes such as cubic zirconia. They have essentially the same chemical, physical, and optical properties as natural diamonds. The distinction is their origin: one grows in a laboratory, the other forms in the earth.
Is a lab-grown diamond right for me?
It may be, especially if your priority is the look and size you want within a comfortable budget. If natural origin matters more to you, a natural diamond may feel like the better fit. We carry both, and we’re happy to help you compare without pressure.
What should I consider before buying a lab-grown diamond?
Look at the individual stone, not just its carat weight. Cut, color, clarity, and documentation still matter. Ask about the jeweler’s return and trade-in policies, too, rather than assuming every diamond comes with the same options.
Why do some jewelers prefer natural diamonds?
For some, it’s the natural origin and geological history. Others specialize in particular types of jewelry or serve customers who prefer natural stones. That doesn’t make a lab-grown diamond less real. At Segal & Co, we believe the conversation should start with what matters to you.
So Which Should You Choose?
That depends entirely on your priorities, your budget, and what the diamond means to you. Both are real. Both are beautiful. Both have a place in our showcase and in your life.
If you are considering a lab grown diamond for your engagement ring, visit our lab grown engagement rings collection as a starting point, and we can help you understand what to consider for your priorities and budget.
At Segal and Co Fine Jewelers, we will never steer you in the wrong direction. Our family has spent 60 years building relationships based on trust and honesty, and that will never change. We carry both natural and lab grown diamonds because we believe every customer deserves options, transparency, and a jeweler they can count on. Come visit us at 1401 Greenbrier Pkwy, Chesapeake, VA and let us help you find exactly what you are looking for.

